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idk if this is just my feed but i feel like people demonize avoidant attachments a lot more than anxious attachments. like did we forget that they’re both bad and neither one should be coddled?😭
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Anonymous 8w

Bc avoidant tend to lead people on and it hurts the anxious attachment when it ends abruptly. Especially if it’s right after you got closer. Anxiously attatched people may be annoying, but at least they can show you they care.

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Anonymous 8w

this is my exact point 💀 ppl act like being avoidant is equivalent to murder or something. both are equally bad for their own reasons.

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