Sex has been both for at least 50 years. You just gotta find one that wants what you want. It is possible.

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i wish sex was neither, it’s really not all that & we would center it too much as a society either way. sex ought to be one of many intimacies you can experience with someone, and decentering it makes it all the more enjoyable. we enjoy things we choose to do more than those we believe we have to do.

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sex can be wtv u make it

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Cause you’re fucking dudes that don’t like you

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