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girls, what would u do if ur man said he would choose his dog over u, in fact, he said “i would be better off without u”
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Anonymous 3w

well um if he’d be better off without you why is he with you

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Anonymous 3w

lowkey i’d choose my dog over my man if i had to so i get it but what’s the context of him saying he’d be better off without u cuz that just feels mean

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Anonymous 3w

i'd leave bc why tf did he feel the need to say the 2nd half? i'd never say that to literally anyone ever unless i hated them. he hates you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

thats what im thinking

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

iv been with him for a year, and his dog is constantly doing something, either chewing something up, pottying in the house, making a mess, pushing boundaries, the dog has zero manners, im well aware its a training issue, im constantly stressed cuz the dog is doing something, im losing sleep because the dog is up all night doing something, im just feeling insane, my bf wont do anything, all he says is “hes just a dog” we constantly have arguments because of the dog

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

so the other day, i genuinely wanted to know if i was even a priority in the long run, so i asked him if he had to choose, me or the dog, well he said “id be better off without u”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

yeah id at least approach him and if he doesn’t take it back get outta there bc what the fuck do you mean he’s better off without you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

so it sounds like he doesn’t like you or care about you like, at all… so why are you still there?? girl i’m sorry but get some self respect and leave him… his loser ass can clean up dog piss all by himself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

girl pls run, he's showing u how he'd be raising literally anything with u. he would be a deadbeat and ud have to fix everything. i dont want that for u and i knw u dont want tht future for urself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

first of all that’s a tough situation i’m sorry. dogs like that can be so difficult to deal with. second of all i agree w every one else that you should break up with him. he’s not being a responsible adult, he’s not prioritizing your needs, and he isn’t giving his dog the care it deserves. i don’t think he should get rid of the dog altogether but he definitely needs to put in time effort and money into training it and it seems like he’s not willing to do that so 🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean and on top of everything the dog does, whenever i try to punish him for doing something bad, he snaps and growls and barks at me, my bf tells me to punish him, but i cant when the dog does that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i dont want to leave my bf, i love him yknow, but i also dont think i can go another year feeling like this, and dealing with a dog that just wont listen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

if he won't make changes then u need to prioritize ur wellbeing and get out

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