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Is it weird that I don’t like going out with friends because they get more male attention and numbers than I? So I don’t go because I want all the attention?
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Anonymous 5w

Weird but I get it lowkey

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Anonymous 5w

yeah it’s a lil weird

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Anonymous 5w

Honestly the ones that get it, get it. The ones that don’t, don’t

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Anonymous 5w

why are you so desperate for male attention 💀

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Anonymous 5w

i would get crazy jealous of anyone and everyone until i got an angel of a bf and finally got enough attention/validation from him and now idc how much attention someone gets

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Anonymous 5w

Maybe like compartmentalize when you’re going out alone to be hit on v. when you’re trying to have fun with your friends? I feel like worrying about who is getting the most attention when you’re out with your friends would be really unpleasant and draining

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Anonymous 5w

Why do you want your friends to suffer as much as you do

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Anonymous 5w

What makes you not get attention?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

You’re right I should go out alone instead of with them. When I go out it’s for males attention and not for them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I was trying to be gentle but tbh straight to therapy, do not pass go, do not collect $200

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Therapy won’t work sadly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

how do you know

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Because I never get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Not that I want them to suffer I’m just tired of suffering

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Which I why I’ll just distance myself away I would never wish bad on the next person but I hate being jealous

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

this is not a good mentality to have. this will cause you to not have any friends and be lonely in life. please get help.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

It’s ok I’m already mentally lonely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

When I’m with my friends I feel alone anyways I don’t enjoy the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

so you don’t want to improve your mental health? i’m lost. that’s not good

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I promise you I don’t think help with work I already tried. They only care about if I’m suicidel not my mental health 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

true true

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I’m not a pretty girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

what makes you not pretty or at least interesting enough to have a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

How do I know?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Idk guys opinion on me. But maybe my facial acne

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

You’re right. I’ll never get the attention I want

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Just to clear up what I meant. I mean the girls saying your post is weird is the ones that get hit on and not the friends that just sit there and watch. I wasn’t trying to attack you🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

Idk I made it all the way through high school and graduated college and have never been hit on one in my life And I still think this post is weird. Friends support friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

was just about to say this. still a virgin and have never been in a relationship at almost 23

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

See this is what I want

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Not men drooling down my back but that special someone , but I never get approached by any guy to get that special person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

one day your special person will trusttt

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

Okay🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah the post wasn’t about having men to sleep or hookup with it’s about me having a special someone who approaches me and find me attractive

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