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I get easily disinterested in men Idk why. The other day a guy on Tinder says he wants casual fun and I’m like okay yay fwb, just be respectful w/me. Immediately I just go ghost. Guy on Hinge says he wants to know me better. Immediately I ghost. Wtf bro
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Anonymous 2w

maybe u are an avoidant 🤍

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Anonymous 2w

I can’t even manage to get interested in men 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I don’t doubt it I just don’t know what to do about it 😭🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i am too! my struggle comes from not knowing if i actually like men enough to be with them, but what helps overall is looking at what makes me uncomfortable and run away abt the situations i end up leaving!! like is it bc i was scared of commitment/actually taking them serious, did i just not like them etc. if u kind of face it head on u can work through it- i am still working on it but it helps to know what’s going on internally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Lowkey same, I feel like I’m lying to myself when I talk to them. They’re just not real people to me 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

For me, I see them as real people.. I just see them as the enemy and a predator 😭

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