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If a girl who you considered your bsf and she considered you a sister ghosted you randomly bc she felt “there was distance between you two”, would you just block her? I wanna leave all my college stuff behind and she lowkey haunts me, but idk what to do
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Anonymous 5w

She’s not meant to be in your life then, be grateful it’s over and learn from this experience. Just block her and move on in your life to better things. Sometimes people are temporary

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Anonymous 5w

I confronted her, only for her to say she thought we drifted apart. She ended the conversation by blocking me. That was the closure I needed to out her in the past.

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Anonymous 5w

Fuck her bf

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

She fucks around, she doesn’t have a bf lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I guess. I just don’t know what to do with the rest of the friend group. I definitely wanna keep the one friend who asked for me, she’s always been nice to me. The others are lowkey aligned with her and it’s making me uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Like they haven’t said anything out loud but they ignored me last I saw them irl and they were with the ex bsf while the one friend who asked for me was chill and talking to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

This is going to be hard to hear but you’re not entitled to peoples time and energy. It sucks when you’ve sunk so much of your love into a friendship and you watch it go unrequited, but nothing can really be done. Find time to be with those who want to be around you, and move on from ppl who don’t. While they don’t owe you an explanation or apology, you don’t either. If that friend gets upset you’re only hanging around the one girl over her, that’s her issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeahhhhhh sometimes ppl just grow out of friendships, it’s pretty common

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