the idea of being a mother terrifies me bc wdym every dream and hope and ambition you have is pushed to the side. wdym mothers say they prefer it that way. wdym they talk about that like it’s a good thing. wdym fathers still get to have a life???
A lot of fathers don’t. Speaking from experience. I wish I had more time with him, but he was busy providing for my mom.
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Anonymous#12d
a lot of fathers also do. i’m sorry for your specific circumstance but it’s very very common to see men still getting to have hobbies/free time while women lose that to childcare/domestic labor