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I can always tell a guy is insecure or like not “sure in his masculinity” bc they’ll always try some fake weird alpha male stuff on you to try to prove their masculine yk
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Anonymous 3d

and its sad bc tea is, i would say in modern times, a lot of women want a softer man lmao. like sure if u wanna be an alpha and pay bills and run everything theres girls for that. but what i see/hear most is girls wanting just like, equal partnership and emotional availability. so the overcompensating is stupid bc they could just be themselves and still pull😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

You can still be a “provider man” and not like almost threatened me or try to automatically try to control me. I’m a more “traditional woman” and I can’t even deal with these guys. Overly aggressive and a lack of self identity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

yeah fs i just feel like the only real popular “role models” if you can call them that, are red pill mfs promoting providing as an exchange for obedience. its getting conflated. i also am a traditional gal, but it seems like these days u can get a protective provider man, or a man that’s nice to you. the ones who are both are already taken or playing a SERIOUS game of hide and go seek😭

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