
and its sad bc tea is, i would say in modern times, a lot of women want a softer man lmao. like sure if u wanna be an alpha and pay bills and run everything theres girls for that. but what i see/hear most is girls wanting just like, equal partnership and emotional availability. so the overcompensating is stupid bc they could just be themselves and still pull😭
yeah fs i just feel like the only real popular “role models” if you can call them that, are red pill mfs promoting providing as an exchange for obedience. its getting conflated. i also am a traditional gal, but it seems like these days u can get a protective provider man, or a man that’s nice to you. the ones who are both are already taken or playing a SERIOUS game of hide and go seek😭