Anonymous #1 4w

He told me Tuesday he had to clarify to his friends when he said he got a gf that it wasn’t them…

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Anonymous #3 4w

this is the nuanced and actual answer

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Anonymous #3 4w

It’s an inside thought though. I’m his gf, I don’t want to hear about residual feelings for someone else

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Anonymous #2 4w

He never clarified. But he framed it like he was hiding which ex it was. Which he’d told me him and that person never dated. So idk why they’re an ex all of a sudden

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Anonymous OP 4w

which is why you’re both kinda valid bc his feelings are real and valid but also not every feeling is appropriate to share with everyone

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Anonymous #2 4w

He’d told me before that he was glad it ended and I’m the only thing he wants, so why is he telling me A seeing them kiss someone else messed up his night and B that they never dated but he’s calling them an ex

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Anonymous OP 4w

I agree! It’s nice that he’s not hiding things from you but I agree if I had that thought I would not tell a partner

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Anonymous #3 4w

Well he is hiding things from me, he said they never dated but now they’re an ex? He said that he was glad it’s over but now his night is ruined bc they kissed someone else?

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Anonymous OP 4w

I don’t feel those things are necessarily contradictory. But you clearly are pissed as hell so I won’t tell you your wrong for that

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