the concern that you would be abusive. why would you be
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Anonymous#22w
my father was abusive and i don’t think i have the patience/selflessness needed to be a good parent and i don’t want to risk being right. do other people really not think about this??
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AnonymousOP2w
Don’t worry, I think about this all the time. I really don’t think I’ll be able to raise my kids without scarring them…
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Anonymous#32w
then you shouldn’t have them
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AnonymousOP2w
Im not saying it’s unreasonable to think you’d be incapable or just like not good at it but the wording of your post was giving ocd thought down
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AnonymousOP2w
I don’t plan on having any lmao😭😭
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Anonymous#22w
I have OCD. This is called intrusive thoughts, in your case the horrible feeling that you could hurt someone INTENTIONALLY