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I’m getting married in 10 days. This does not feel like real life 😭
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Anonymous 4w

Ok Mrs.!!! Period!!!

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Anonymous 4w

CONGRATS OMGGG

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Anonymous 4w

WELCOME TO THE CLUB CONGRATS!!🍾🎉

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Anonymous 4w

Congrats! I got engaged last year so if you have any good wedding planning tips please send them my way!🫶🏻

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Anonymous 4w

WAIT WHAT OMG CONGRATS?? r u a senior and how did yall meet?

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Anonymous 4w

How old are you? (Not in a judgmental way I’m curious)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m so excited!!! I’m going to be a wife wtf!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you thank you 😌💅🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> pinkraincloud 4w

AHHHH a belated congrats to you too!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

24! He’s 26. Tbf we were going to wait a couple years for a “real” wedding, but I have really good insurance through work and the ACA credit expiration really screwed him over, so we’re expediting the process a little

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh niceee I’d do the same fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Thank you!! Unfortunately we are just eloping right now, but we have been slowly wedding planning and I was just a MoH in a friend’s wedding, so I have some tips still. The most important thing I’ve learned so far is to find a venue that doesn’t have any required vendors (or very minimal). One spot we’re looking at only requires the table/chair vendor, the rest is free rein. The required vendors are how they upcharge you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

And also congrats to you too!! I ran out of characters lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Thank you! The places we are looking at both provide chairs and tables and don’t have any required vendors although one requires a licensed bartender so that’s so nice. Weddings are so expensive I hope you have the best time eloping and have an amazing wedding when you do one🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

They seriously are :,)) that’s a big part of why we’re waiting. We’re also planning to spend more money on the reception than the ceremony, which is why we’re kind of considering getting a huge VRBO for our friends and family to hang out with us at, and to do a small ceremony in the yard or something. Good luck with planning, don’t stress yourself out too much!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Yeah not how we envisioned it and it was a sudden decision, but we’ve been talking about how excited we are for the last month since we decided to expedite the process. We have two of our closest friends as witnesses and it’s a secret to everyone else that we’re going to reveal after our “real” wedding! Plus we took off a week from work to enjoy time together. We’re making the best of a not-so-ideal situation

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