Every time I talk to my mom about my education and career plans, all she has to say is “are you even trying to look for a man” and “I need grandbabies”
people don't realize how much comments like this fuel the desire to avoid dating completely. like i was gonna avoid dating regardless, but that stuff just validates my joy of being single
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Anonymous#15d
I don’t mind being in a relationship, I feel I’m reaching that age. But I’m not gonna date the first guy I see just to get married ASAP and have kids. It’s almost like my youth should be for ME to live my life and I’m not giving it away to a man and baby