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i’ve been a kid hater since i was a kid myself & was extremely public about it. i still do at the ripe age of 22… and mfs still can’t wrap their heads around me not wanting kids😹😹
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Anonymous 2w

Are they hating you for not wanting kids or the public hatred about kids, like I get not wanting kids or finding them annoying but calling yourself a “kid hater” seems weird 💀 and sounds like you bully them

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Anonymous 2w

No I told people I’m not having kids from the age of like 7. And at 23… yeah I’m not having kids. I’m too lazy and selfish and also like pregnancy is scary. Also I want full access to medical care for something as serious as birth like tf

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Anonymous 2w

I’m 26 now and as someone who knew she didn’t want kids from a very young age, I am finally getting a tinge of baby fever but only in the way of seeing cute kids on TikTok or wherever. But then I remember the everything else about pregnancy, childbirth, and raising children into functioning adults and that’s more than enough to scare me out of it

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Anonymous 2w

Ok you sound immature. It's perfectly fine to not want them but calling yourself a kid hater is pathetic😂

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Anonymous 2w

it’s even worse seeing so many people my age that i know pop them out by the dozen like how the fuck are yall so chill about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

it’s not that serious i fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

this is absolutely valid but the concept of a seven year old looking at their peers at elementary school and being like yea i never wanna be around you mfs again 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

it’s more so like i watched what my family went thru with younger siblings in the baby stages and was like hell nah i’m never going through that shit again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I was a gifted kid so yeah I hated them I thought they were inefficient and annoying 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

yeah girl it’s especially not worth it if you live in an area with abortion bans bc those areas also rank super low for women’s healthcare. adoption is always an option too

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

i wish i gaf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i’m allowed to have a public hatred for kids without having the intent to ever hurt one. why the hell would i “bully” an innocent child? but kids (more specifically toddlers and younger) are incredibly overstimulating and i refuse to make/raise one. the bigger issue here is forcing motherhood upon women that don’t want it and shame them. not my harmless lil joke

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

not public hatred, i mean more so publicly dislike

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

hm you replied 6 hours ago, i didn’t reply, so you came back AGAIN. even though you claim to not gaf… you surely seem to keep talking in hopes i’ll reply so here’s my last minute of attention to entertaining this post 🤝

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

and you keep downvoting every comment i make on here so seems like you’re enjoying it too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

babes there’s several other people on this reply thread lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

cause i know you’re not upvoting me so there must be other people active on this thread! crazy!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

wait that wasn’t the last time you’re entertaining my post??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

you’re all boosting engagement tho<3 love all yall

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah I just honestly couldn’t handle the grave responsibility of raising a whole human to be good and do no harm, because nurture can only help so much in some cases. I couldn’t live with myself if god forbid my kid was an innate school shooter or something. Lucky for me I’m probably infertile between my mom needing IVF for me and me having PCOS that went untreated for most my life, so hopefully no accidents can happen 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

And I am in Kentucky on the border of Ohio and Indiana, so draw your own conclusions about my abortion access there 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

condolences angel

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I love literally everything about this area except for the republican supermajority in Kentucky’s congress, like even the governor is awesome. But he can’t do anything because they override everything :/

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