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Girl Talk 19h
Just had a guy tell me that my body count of 15 makes me look like a red flag and I said how yours is probably higher and he said ya but I’m a guy… ARE WE BEING SO DEADASS RIGHT NOW…
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Anonymous 18h

girl, he essentially just called you a whore and you’re still gonna give him a chance. am I surprised, no, but that’s encouraging bad behavior and then everybody’s so shocked at their audacity somehow? while handing it to him 😂😂😂

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Anonymous 18h

I just don’t interact with guys who say stupid shit like “body count”. It doesn’t matter. My labs are clean and that’s what’s important.

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Anonymous 19h

My ex had double mine and it was an issue I’d slept w someone we know (before I ever met him) but totally fine he wore a chain everyday that a girl he hooked up w bought him…

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Anonymous 13h

Girl this is so toxic please drop him. I’m not usually one to say that on every little post about relationship problems but that kind of buy in to purity culture and misogyny won’t just go away. I dated a guy who had some slut shame-y ideas and I thought we got past it but they came back to bite me in the ass and it was very clear he never really respected me

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Anonymous 18h

girl drop him immediately please . my boy i’m talking to currently asked my body count , i told him i genuinely don’t know the actual number but i know it’s more than 30, i explained to him i had a really bad manic episode which caused me to have sex with a bunch of men, he kissed my forehead and told me it doesn’t change anything about me and as long as i was checked after and okay now , then he’s okay. *i was checked after and was clean for std’s luckiky*

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Anonymous 10h

double standards go crazy in the male world

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Anonymous 11h

Well ladies n gentlemen he ended it tonight… apparently me having that body count and a guy best friend is a red flag…

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Anonymous 19h

Bruh why do ppl like this still exist like is their sole purpose to piss people off

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Anonymous 10h

I mean 15 is kinda high tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

It makes it worse because it’s a guy I actually like too…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Not anymore I hope 😬😭 ugh but I get u that makes it worse bc it comes from the ones u expect to be better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Right.. idk we will see if he says anymore stupid shit. Also told me it’s a red flag that I have a guy best friend. Like sir if you have a problem with that then we can just end this now bc he’s been my best friend for 6 years and he’s not going anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Why do guys suck.. ya we were gonna go out last night with his friends but I found out last night someone in the friend group I was with for maybe a week back in 2019… all we did was make out and he fingered me and that was it. It was such a big deal that we did not end up going out last night🤣😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I even let him know before we started dating, mind you I hooked up w that guy over a year ago and he’s in a relationship now!! This man had an issue w that but not that one of his friends called me a whore

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

…🙃 welp.. good for you tho!! Ya I feel the manic. I fell into one last summer

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

Who said she was giving him a chance…

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

umm she did. lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

Where??

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

it’s really not that many comments under this post … read them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

you're gonna wait to see if he says MORE stupid shit...? hes done enough 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

“If you have a problem with that then we can just end it now” then end it? Just letting him play in your face for what.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

Nvm u right I read the comments… yikes. lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I’m sorry I’m sure that hurts. But you really are the one that dodged a bullet

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11h

Yeah it did and yes I did bc I’ve had to learn the hard way about cutting my best friend off bc my partners weren’t comfortable with it but look who stayed n didn’t so if he wouldn’t have been comfortable with it then I’d be like listen I’m sorry but I’m choosing him

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

It’s really not

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

Being judgmental is really not it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

What is high and low then?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

body count is a recent societal construct created to make women feel bad about their sexuality and push purity culture . it’s literally not real and misogynistic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

It’s bullshit is what it is. Grow up.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

You’re wise to choose friendship over superficial ‘romance’.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

I didn’t even say it was good or bad, I just thought it was high damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9h

We know your thinking. It’s not high, it’s not bad. You just need to get rid of the backwards thinking.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6h

hard agree (as someone whose body count is 2)

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