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does this make sense as an explanation for why I’m upset with bf’s online behavior? I feel disrespected and also self conscious. am I not pretty enough etc. it feels so dirty and embarrassing for me like something I’m not doing but need to keep private
7 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "does this make sense as an explanation for why I’m upset with bf’s online behavior? I feel disrespected and also self conscious. am I not pretty enough etc. it feels so dirty and embarrassing for me like something I’m not doing but need to keep private"
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Anonymous 9w

is that not fucking cheating???? bc it is

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Anonymous 9w

I’m having a hard time articulating it because it’s just so feelings based. when it’s girls that look nothing like me it feels so awful. when it’s girls that do look like me it makes me wonder if I’m just a manifestation of the egirls and not a real person to him

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Anonymous 9w

Cheating is whatever’s determined is cheating when you and your partner talk and figure it out together, I’m so sorry that he’s doing this, this isn’t fair at all

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Anonymous 9w

drop him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

you’re allowed to have those feelings tho? and if u express it to him, then he keeps doing it, that’s cheating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I don’t consider it cheating. to me cheating would be actually engaging in a meaningful way like kissing+ or forming an emotional bond. it’s like some other thing. like I don’t think going to a strip club or bikini coffee shop is actual cheating but I’m not on board with it and this to me falls under the same umbrella

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

thank you for validating my feelings. I want him to understand how I feel and hopefully it will inspire change

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