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tmi but I had a 1 night stand for the first time after my ex and I have been broken up for a while. I was blackout drunk and don’t remember much of it. I feel like shit. Any big sister type advice? :/
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Anonymous 3w

Honey if you were blacked out, that was unconsentual. Do you have women’s center or something similar at your school? Do you know if protection was used?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

oh geez…I didn’t think of it that way, I just assumed he was drunk too but apparently in the morning he remembered we did and my body obviously felt like it if that makes sense like I was sore. I had only one flashback but luckily he said we used protection because he said I apparently bugged him about it that night. I guess he didn’t realize I wasn’t with it…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I think my school offers free therapy sessions I can book, idk about a women’s center though :(

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