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yall how do i tell my roommate shes male centered? shes supposed to be one of my best friends and ever since she has gotten with this man, i have been in this friendship alone :/
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Anonymous 3w

like yall shes even late to class cause of this man, HE DOESNT EVEN GAVE A CAR

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Anonymous 3w

I hate mine. We not friends n we dont talk but im so sick n tired of her bringing in her bf every fucking week actin like he paid the room ☠️☠️

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Anonymous 3w

like every time i turn around to talk about something his name always gets brought up, she brought him in without asking, full on knowing that the one boundary i have is with people in my home. he’s constantly there without contributing, and all he does is have sex with her from my perspective

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Anonymous 3w

i ask her to come somewhere for me because i want support, its a quick “i dont think we’ll make it”, its going on five months of this and when i first got in my relationship, i would always either come alone or bring my lover with me cause we wanted to support, she has fully stopped coming through for me

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Anonymous 3w

like, if i ask for anything it has become transactional, and im so tired. i have done so much for her and im just so tired. i literally got her the apartment she wanted and she treats me like trash, every time i turn around she is genuinely ruining something for me and im left to deal with it. there is no good around her, and when there is she uses it all up while it serves her and if it mo longer serves her she just throws it away and i feel like i no longer serve her and we live together

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Anonymous 3w

ts has just become tiring and im getting upset

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Anonymous 3w

honestly i would get a whole different roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

tbh im thinking about it but my fiancee is always in my apartment and i dont wanna have to discuss boundaries plus they cant be homophobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

but i understand u. like #1 suggested, u should find another roommate bc if she doesnt care, u shouldnt either

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