
like every time i turn around to talk about something his name always gets brought up, she brought him in without asking, full on knowing that the one boundary i have is with people in my home. he’s constantly there without contributing, and all he does is have sex with her from my perspective
i ask her to come somewhere for me because i want support, its a quick “i dont think we’ll make it”, its going on five months of this and when i first got in my relationship, i would always either come alone or bring my lover with me cause we wanted to support, she has fully stopped coming through for me
like, if i ask for anything it has become transactional, and im so tired. i have done so much for her and im just so tired. i literally got her the apartment she wanted and she treats me like trash, every time i turn around she is genuinely ruining something for me and im left to deal with it. there is no good around her, and when there is she uses it all up while it serves her and if it mo longer serves her she just throws it away and i feel like i no longer serve her and we live together