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Girl Talk 2w
I just lost the loml and none of my “friends” have checked in on me. How ur finals week going
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Anonymous 2w

i’m sorry diva that sucks dick and balls. i went through a breakup before the semester started and it was really awful. even now it still hurts a little. you’re gonna have a hard time during the holidays, but try to enjoy time with family and seeing old friends from high school. take time for you. i’m proud of you for showing up and doing your best at school. it DOES get easier. it just takes time.

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Anonymous 2w

this happened to me and a crashed so bad i moved out for the first time and lived with a crack addict, if u feel like moving in with ppl you dont know it is very important that when they say "i have eczema" as their excuse for itching themselves all the time and u notice them sniffling and itching their nose all the time that u take that as a sign and dont move in with them 🫵😠 no matter how desperate and sad u are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I genuinely don’t have any friends home idek what to do anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

it does get better though! just focus on yourself and keep moving foward. you'll find real friends and just use this as an opportunity to see who is a real friend and who isnt 🤷‍♀️ dont let ur own emotions pressure u into make a big decision because u feel like u dont have any control over whats going on around you (if u feel that way)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

what about family? who was your support system outside of your ex? and shit i’ll talk to you. break ups are hard as fuck. but it WILL get better. try to let yourself feel all the feelings. for better or worse, grief is part of the human experience. and if you need to crash out, do it. get a haircut. get a dog. get a belly button piercing or a goldfish or something. just take space to be you again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I had friends at school but my bsf isn’t talking to me and I’ve asked why and she left me on read. I’ve reached out to my little and she hasn’t responded all day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i’m so sorry baby. when finals are over you can go home and be with your family and just relax and chill out. it was honestly what helped me the most after my break up. just being in my old room, seeing my dogs, being away from campus helped so much. it really showed me how much i’ve already changed in life and how much life goes on and can be wonderful. i even read my old diaries from highschool lol. just go home, take a load off, watch sex and the city, get a pedicure. bake. cry outside. <3

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

I just want him back. It was literally just asking to be exclusive (which we pretty much were) and apparently that was too big of an ask. Then he used my faith against me (we’re both Christian)

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