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so obvi wearing bright red to a wedding is a big no, but are burgundy and maroon okay for a fall/winter one?
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Anonymous 15h

i always try to match the invites tbh.

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Anonymous 15h

I think it’s fine? I’ve only been to my siblings weddings in the fall but I’ve seen guests wear any color they wanted (besides white). Always okay to ask the bride if you’re unsure though

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Anonymous 15h

You could maybe reach out to the bride or wedding party to ask :)?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

it’s a friend’s wedding, so i would definitely ask! just curious what other people think. thank you! <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

do you mean the colors or the vibe? i love that idea, but i’d be worried about matching the bridesmaids. but that’s definitely just me overthinking it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

usually color but i don’t always go the same shade to avoid matching, i’ve accidentally matched a bride once tho who was wearing purple 🥲 she didn’t mention to not wear purple anywhere. i felt so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

oh my gosh that is my nightmare 😭 i am so scared of accidentally offending someone at a wedding. i’m sure she didn’t mind though! if she did, it would’ve been on the invite

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

she hasn’t spoken to me since 🥲 but i hope she’s having the best life ever and is forever surrounded by love

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

oh… well if she’s mad about something that was her own fault, maybe that’s for the best. i’m so sorry that happened!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

definitely will if i need to! i was just wondering if its considered a faux pas :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

honestly maybe 🤔 i’m at the point where i don’t really miss her just think abt it when i get an invite 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

you can never wear purple again haha

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

loll i barely have any in my wardrobe tbh. but i wear a purple ribbon all oct long for dva

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