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I saw a tiktok that called this “performative maturity” Like why are you acting 40 at 23 “I just caaaan’t drink like I was 18 anymore” So drink like your current age girl. No one’s asking anyone to blackout
I need more friends who like to go to the club ever since my one friend got a bf she acts like she doesn’t like to go anymore 😭
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Anonymous 2d

and people acting like it’s so crazy to WANT to get drunk and go to the club like damn… ok… maybe knitting in bed at 9pm isn’t as fun as you say if you have the time to hate like that..

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Anonymous 2d

My sister is 26 and is now a religious housewife who couldn’t dare touch an alcohol. She used to smoke weed and steal alc from our parents when she was like 18 and tries to act like her teens and early 20s didn’t exist girl bffr you’re not 50.

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Anonymous 2d

i’ve never been a huge drinker or partier, but even i can enjoy a night out at the clubs getting drunk every now and then

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Anonymous 2d

Exactly! Like we’re still young just bc you got a bf don’t mean shit 😂 we’re 25

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Anonymous 2d

I still drink and go out but it’s definitely true that j can’t drink like I could at 18😭 I could go on 4 day benders now one night of heavy drinking I’m iit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

It’s not fun lol I just like to get drunk and dance

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Period!!!! Even if people don’t drink… let’s go DAAAANNCE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

FOR REALLL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I didn’t drink when I was 18 I started at 21 even then couldn’t go to clubs during covid so tbh I’m just getting started

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

lol exactly. Just aging yourself. I don’t think we start getting old fr until mid 40s.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

i feel like it can depend on when you started going out. like some people really were born to party and they never get tired of it and i love my party girls, but i had some crazy experiences in high school so by the time i got to college i had kind of run it out of my system if that makes sense. i still love going out from time to time of course but it’s not nearly as much as i used to in my teens and i’m definitely not as crazy as i used to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I guess so yeah. I never got crazy per se so I want to have more wild experiences. I think since I’m older now I can do that safely if it makes sens e

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

my roommate has done this where she pretends she’s “above” other ppl who party, drink, do hookups, drugs, ect. when she used to do that before her current bf and i’m just like, you can change for sure, but don’t pretend like you didn’t at least enjoy that lifestyle in the past.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

yes definitely makes sense. i honestly wish i had waited a bit for some experiences so that i could do things safely and with a better head on my shoulders. i’m shocked at what younger me was up to 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

What did you do? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

at the ripe ages of 14-17 i was running around with drug dealers and throwing parties with my friends who were all super into coke and pills and one of them smoked crack regularly 😭 i think they’re all still alive thankfully and some have gone to rehab since i’ve kind of separated from that world. we would crash parties too with people who were all way too old to be partying with us. ran into some very sticky situations. glad to be alive 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

That’s crazy 😭 glad ur okay. Yeah I def won’t be doing anything close to that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

yeah no one should be doing what i was doing 😭 i think because i didn’t enjoy drinking and drugs as much it saved me from going off the deep-end with them. i was the dd most of the time haha but definitely still got dragged into a lot of bad shit and was like “okay i’ve seen enough” and went a different direction with my life.

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