Girl Talk on Sidechat | My dad asked me today why rape victims come forward so long after supposed crimes if they want to be taken seriously. I didn’t come forward to him until five years after I was raped. I am disappointed in a way I never knew I could be.

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My dad asked me today why rape victims come forward so long after supposed crimes if they want to be taken seriously. I didn’t come forward to him until five years after I was raped. I am disappointed in a way I never knew I could be.

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Anonymous 11w

him. tell him it's him - and men thinking like him - that prevents many women from speaking out sooner

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Anonymous 11w

the think about men like him is he literally cannot fathom or process how insensitive he was just being. it’s beyond disgusting what the human race is becoming

Anonymous 11w

It’s been 7 years since I was assaulted and I still haven’t told anyone in my life besides my partner, my best friend, and my brother

Anonymous 11w

because (as someone who spoke up after and went through the legal process and put that mf away after 4 years of them dragging out the case) women are scared, scared they won’t be believed, scared that the person may hurt them if they speak up, and embarrassed to talk about such a vulnerable and traumatic time.

Anonymous 11w

i’m listening

Anonymous 11w

he’s not working as he should be, as my boyfriend. i’m not saying anything or making any allegations. send help! lol.

Anonymous 11w

in my walls. all of them. sex crimes

Anonymous 11w

i’m hearing my heart beat out of my chest.

Anonymous 11w

i trust myself.

Anonymous

#2 11w

I did. I tried to have a conversation with him about how dangerous that mindset is, even gave him the statistics on the likelihood of cases going to trial or getting a guilty verdict. I don’t know if he cared, and I don’t know if it will help him to think about this better, but I tried.

Anonymous

OP 11w

that's all you can do and you should be proud of yourself. it's not easy confronting that thinking, especially in a loved one. keep it up if u can, and if not know that you did your part 💕

Anonymous

#5 11w

my boyfriend. help me. now.

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Anonymous

#4 11w

Anonymous

#5 11w

marley marley marley. per usual. ex’s.

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Anonymous

#5 11w

Uh is number 4 alright?

Anonymous

#6 11w

no! i’m concerned. deeply

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Anonymous

#4 11w

Why are you texting things like you’re having an episode

Anonymous

#6 11w

evidence and probable cause. against a person or peoples from the past. if you didn’t hurt me and don’t know who did, u have nothing to help me with. if your primary concern is my mental health. it shouldn’t be.

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Anonymous

#4 11w

anyone in the loony is loony club? wrong club to be in. right now…. at least.

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Anonymous

#6 11w

Umm guys? This is kind of scary

Anonymous

#6 11w

i’m terrified. warrants. charges. don’t you think! if you didn’t do anything wrong. you have nothing to worry about!

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Anonymous

#7 11w

i’m not hearing any voices.

Anonymous

#6 11w

Can someone else pls respond? Is there something we can do?

Anonymous

#6 11w

warrants. scary. bad. lawyers.

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Anonymous

#4 11w

maybe you should sit down, name five objects, what the colors of them are, then name five textures you can feel

Anonymous

#4 11w

Hi 4. I am very concerned after seeing your comments. I highly suggest you text 988

Anonymous

#4 11w

Please find any human who has nurtured you in the past and sit with them

Anonymous

OP 11w

no thank you! believe women. not what you see on anonymous smear campaigns. even if you saw the tv glow. we can’t always believe what’s on tv.

Anonymous

OP 11w

i’m not looking into any similar matters as you are.

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