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I feel like my one true want in life is a real romantic love. And yes I have a job I have a degree I have career plans I have friends I have hobbies I have interests I have spent time alone. Nothing changes it.
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Anonymous 1d

It feels like a constant and it’s so frustrating. It’s the one thing I want and have always wanted but it’s beyond my control. I know that life has value outside of it. But deep down I am never satisfied no matter how successful I am or how many hobbies I pick up or friends I make.

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Anonymous 1d

Do other people feel this way? Or am I alone?

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Anonymous 1d

I feel so stupid because I feel like this one-dimensional being who genuinely only cares about one thing but it’s always there it consumes my mind.

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Anonymous 1d

Idk this is just a middle of the night ramble because I feel so alone in this.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah girl I feel you. I try to spend time with friends and family, focus on my career, focus on my interests.. but the lingering desire for true romantic love is always there.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

your not alone and it’s very hard. I want to spend my life along where we both add on to eachothers happiness and successes alot. I just remind myself to not settle for anything or the bare minimum despite how much i want it . I would really enjoy a kind, respectful, empathetic, passionate, caring, and hardworking partner, and if those aren’t met I rather be sulking about it honestly. I dated someone for 4 months and let little things slide just cause he was “close”, it was a huge mistake

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Thank you it is nice to know I’m not alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

Yeah I don’t want to settle either. It just feels hopeless and I’d rather be single than in the wrong relationship, but god I hate being single. I hate it so much.

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