
nope, you’re not the asshole because I have been in that situation before and I hate the fact that they sent her their lives around men and their boyfriends and it’s like there is so much more to life than what your significant other provides for you and your significant others existence you know
Exactly like I got it the first time you have a boyfriend. I am not trying to be rude, but I don’t want to hear about him every single conversation we have. Like you’re telling me you have nothing going on outside of his shadow, like you have nothing to do outside of his shadow. “Oh, I can’t hang out with you because I’m with my boyfriend.” “I gotta go. My boyfriend’s calling me.” or “My boyfriend bought me an expensive gift.” Cool got it
you say when I had a boyfriend of course he was my first ever boyfriend. I definitely put him on a pedestal, but I still made time for my friends and you know he made time for his friends and we had that sort of independence from each other and we go to the same school, but we’re not together anymore and I guess because I’m single and my roommates are all in relationships with their boyfriends it’s just like why