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Girl Talk 21h
prob a hot take but i don’t think you should be having kids with someone until you’re engaged/married and living together🫣
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Anonymous 21h

i got engaged, had a kid, and then finally after having my second child we moved in together

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Anonymous 20h

Depends. 2 households can be great if both are good environments. For ex, I had a friend whose parents were separated before she was born, but we used to go over her mom and dad’s houses and it was amazing. Neither parent bad mouthed the other, and if we got a ‘No’ from one parent, the other wouldn’t budge. I can see what you’re saying though, children are a BIG decision. If you’re not mature enough to handle your own relationships, you shouldn’t create a new one that doesn’t have the choice.

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Anonymous 15h

Yeah usually when ppl have kids together outside of marriage it's by accident...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

my thoughts are if you can’t afford to move in with someone, how can you afford to have kids? and why wouldn’t you want your kid to grow up with both parents living together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

it wasn’t about affordability

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

so what was it? genuinely asking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

my baby would cry anytime we were in the same room together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

i’m sorry i’m sleep deprived and bored im single and with no kids and just felt like making shit up but the earnesty in which you’re having this convo is making me regret being a clown

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

😭 i forget how easily ppl can just lie on here

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