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question for the trans girls in here: im dating someone who currently identifies as a cis man but has said some very eggy things. how can i subtly show him that i support him no matter what (and would prefer dating a happy tgirl to a sad cis guy yknow)
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Anonymous 12w

Not a trans girl, but have a lot of trans girl friends and also basically only know people that are lgbtq. I’d say it’s mostly waiting, letting your partner approach you first. And maybe hinting by discussing other examples could help, if that makes any sense

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Anonymous 12w

just be supportive. when the opportunity presents itself (it will again i promise) just try to be clear without pushing it that you don’t think there’s anything wrong with him and that you just want him to do what makes him happy. what kind of stuff has he said i can probably give you some pointers on what he might be feeling and how to approach it

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Anonymous 12w

I’m a trans girl and honestly it just takes time and support and sometimes your life to fall apart before you realize. Let your partner lead cuz it’s pretty internal but I’m sure you could find little ways to be affirming 🫶🏻 good luck!!

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