
my good friend nuance has entered the building… i think two things can be true at once. marriage was created as a tool to control women and that continues to this day BUT the ability to get married is still a civil right that should be offered to everyone, regardless of race/sexuality/any other characteristic. i think marriage can be criticized while also understanding how important it is, especially for marginalized communities, to be able to get legally married. regardless of its origin, in
nah i get it i was just wondering if you also believed those power dynamics were still implicitly perpetuated within queer dynamics ! i’ve never thought ab the topic so i just assumed without those inherent gender roles/biases it may be different than hetero marriages. but im not married so idk man