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AITA: yesterday, my bf says we’ll leave at 8 AM. At 8, I’m up & ready, but he’s still in bed. I ask when we’re going, he says 8:30. I say I could’ve gotten more sleep if I’d known, and he says I’m mean for nagging him first thing in the morning. AITA??
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Anonymous 1d

no he is

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Anonymous 23h

I’d leave and go get myself breakfast

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Anonymous 23h

i would make his ass get up

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Anonymous 23h

ur literally not nagging at all???

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Anonymous 23h

Id beat his ass idk tho

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Anonymous 23h

Update: he apologized for grumping at me, and we agreed that since this is a RECURRING issue with him, I’ll just get up half an hour late for all his plans in future, and he’s not allowed to complain ✨🥳

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

I really tried!! 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

why can't he just..... set an alarm like an adult instead of making u have to assume everything's just later??

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

honestly i have this issue too bc im severe adhd so im not gonna judge him for being late and understand why they would make this compromise 😭💀 but its not okay to tell your girl shes “nagging” you when youre clearly being an ass

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