Anonymous #3 20w

The point of the post went right over your head, didn’t it?

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Anonymous #5 20w

I don’t like the point

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Anonymous #3 20w

is your head empty?

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Anonymous #6 20w

Do you like your father?

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Anonymous #3 20w

Thank you sm because I was scared of not having your opinion

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Anonymous #7 20w

You’re welcome

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Anonymous #3 20w

Out of curiosity, what do you think the point was then?

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Anonymous OP 20w

You are trying to equate that “learning how to pick yourself up” is just the role of a father that you can fulfill yourself I’m disagreeing, saying: that’s not what it means to be father It’s like me saying “Happy mother’s day to me, because I cleaned after myself, became a good cook and have care for others. I did a good job! Go me!” You aren’t implying that you don’t have a father at all. You make it seem like you take credit for your own accomplishments and we don’t know if you are man too

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Anonymous #3 20w

Or even just the stereotypical roles I just described in my example is like kind of demeaning to fathers and mothers

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Anonymous #3 20w

I understand that I don’t know what it means to be a father. I never will. He wasn’t there. What I’m trying to say above is that his absence forced me to figure things out on my own. I did those things, because he didn’t. I was more of a father to myself than he ever was, therefore I take credit for those accomplishments. Also, I posted this in girl talk… because I’m a girl.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Good for you, I’m sure it was difficult. But to reduce the meaning of what fatherhood and motherhood means to just be applied to just anyone kind of annoys me. You are justifying trying to label your accomplishments and make it about you when its not. We have fathers who have struggled, who have been through hardships and you want to claim the title of father for you to feel good. I don’t like that

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Anonymous #3 20w

But it can be applied to anyone. Adoptive parents didn’t give birth to the kid, but they are still mothers and fathers. Same goes for found family, same sex relationship parents, and the many other varieties of family there are.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Adoptive parents are fathers and mothers who stepped up when nobody didn’t they brought meaning to the words of father and mother. But you want to make it still about you!

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Anonymous #3 20w

Yep. They brought meaning to those words by raising those children. Teaching them life skills, being there for them. Loving them. I'm willing to claim the title of being MY OWN best father, because no one else earned that right. No one else even tried. I did that, and I did that on my own.

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Anonymous #3 20w

Oh my god bro just let her feel proud of learning how to do things by herself that fathers usually teach you. You’re so annoying trying to be different

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Anonymous OP 20w

Delusional

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Anonymous #7 20w

“Let her feel proud” She made a day that wasn’t about her about her. Im not gonna let delusional people talk like this

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Anonymous #3 20w

Nope, just coping with a fucked up family unit that forced me to become independent. I’m proud of how I turned out. And I’m proud of the work I did to get there.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Be proud of being independent not a father or mother

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Anonymous #3 20w

Let??? LMAOOO whatcha gonna do?

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Anonymous OP 20w

I feel ya from one hyper independent to another

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Anonymous #7 20w

Call it out for what it is

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Anonymous #3 20w

You think far too highly of yourself lil bro

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Anonymous #7 20w

You think to narrowly get out of your own box and head.

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Anonymous #11 20w

*too

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Anonymous #7 20w

Oh great grammar police is here

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Anonymous #3 20w

This was a short yikyak post meant to empower others who had to learn that independence as well. It’s okay if you don’t understand what that is like or how that effects someone, but please don’t talk down to me or others. That’s not what today is for either.

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Anonymous #3 20w

You’re the reason literacy rates are at an all time low btw

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Anonymous OP 20w

I’m trying to call out delusional people like you from making it about you. You celebrate your independence everyday without your parents. Continue doing that but don’t make it about you today

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Anonymous OP 20w

That goes for everyone here too. Internet rage baiting doesn’t accomplish anything, wether you think they’re right or wrong.

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Anonymous #3 20w

God knows I’m not going to make it about him. I think it’s fair to celebrate my own victories instead of mourning how that effected me.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Nobody asked on father’s day to have the worst fathers celebrated. Keep being delusional

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Anonymous #3 20w

I’ve been told many times to be grateful on Father’s Day for the life he gave me. I will not be. I will be grateful for myself instead.

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Anonymous #3 20w

Mb for interacting w ragebait. I hope you have a nice day and can have a better attitude when you calm down

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Anonymous OP 20w

Period

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Anonymous #7 20w

Aint no way yall are dismissing this as ragebait. This is fr yall hate accountability fr

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Anonymous #3 20w

Have a good day

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Anonymous #7 20w

Keep being delusional ig

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Anonymous #3 20w

I asked YOU to not talk down to me. I asked OTHERS not to rage bait.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Idk those people or why you mentioned them at all

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Anonymous OP 20w

I can talk to you however I want because I’m independent from you

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Anonymous #3 20w

Yeah, I’m good. I tried to talk with you, tried yo explain my reasoning, and even tried to help you. I’m moving on now, this isn’t worth my time. I hope you have a great Father’s Day, I know I’m going to.

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Anonymous OP 20w

Keep being delusional and self-centered bc that makes doesn’t make you look full of yourself

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