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I have a friend whose bi and I guess I’m confused why she’s so adamant about labeling herself that way when she constantly talks about how she’d never date a women, only envisions herself with men, and kinda perpetuates stereotypes about wlw couples?
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Anonymous 1w

I know someone calling herself a lesbian and dating a man rn 💀

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Anonymous 1w

Idk, I know it’s not my place to question or police anyone’s sexuality. And I understand that bisexual heteromantic ppl exist but I guess I’m just curious why there’s so much desire to be in the community if to have no real intention of engaging with it in a meaningful way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And this is someone who is also saying things like “I would never date a women bc I don’t want to be the man” but like, aren’t their wlw couples who don’t subscribe to heteronormative dating standards and just do what they want? The things they same sometimes come across as very internalized homophobia adjacent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Omg me too 😭😭 not even a trans man either. A cis man. Like what are we doing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yep same situation here

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