I had a friend like this. She was also a roommate and was so delusional that she thought we had completely turned against her bc we didn’t like him (we didn’t and would constantly try to get her to hang with us) we eventually gave up and let her make us the villains because it was taking a toll on our mental health. Some people just don’t want help.

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The best way to support your friends in situations like this is to be a safe space for them while encouraging them to leave being mean to her is only going to push her towards him more

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i had a friend like that. she’s still with him and has no friends now. she’s alone and spends 90% of her time in his room. she only has him here. i miss her so much but it got to a point where her immaturity and lack of self worth affected her friendship with all of us, and eventually tore apart the entire friendship group. support your friend but don’t fight her battles for her- you can bring a horse to water but can’t make them drink.

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