Girl Talk on Sidechat | Maybe controversial but why are we expected to cater to thin girls’ EDs and give them the utmost consideration when fat girls have EDs too and often the shit thin girls with EDs says is harmful to them…

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Girl Talk 11w

Maybe controversial but why are we expected to cater to thin girls’ EDs and give them the utmost consideration when fat girls have EDs too and often the shit thin girls with EDs says is harmful to them…

137

Anonymous 11w

I hate how people only feel bad for people with EDs that make them thin

Anonymous 11w

Also like bigger girls can also have anorexia. But it’s a good thing for them because “they need to lose some” 🙄

Anonymous 11w

Because people now only feel empathy for conventionally attractive people which means a slim/fit body type. Meaning everyone else is dismissed and belittled

Anonymous 11w

Dude this is so true— I never realized this before but ur genuinely so right

Anonymous 11w

Literally like my parents were both feeders and pushed they’re weird fetish onto their kids too and now I’m 18 with a binge ED and like 200lbs 😭

Anonymous 11w

dead ass got called “skinny fat” and i was like ????? wtaf??? “youre like not skinny but youre not necessarily fat either” ?? wtf does that mean.

Anonymous 11w

I really feel like this isn’t true, I can see how it’s glamorized in things like movies but there’s also movies like precious. I agree it’s glamorized, and shouldn’t be. But I do think an eating disorder is an eating disorder, whether you’re skinny or not. Mental illnesses have very a broad spectrum.

Deleted 11w

Comment Deleted

Deleted 11w

Comment Deleted

Anonymous

#1 11w

Yup we get absolutely no sympathy or consideration ever

Anonymous

OP 11w

Your struggles are valid and I sincerely hope you can defeat your ED someday 🙏🏼

Anonymous

#1 11w

tysm 💕

Anonymous

#5 11w

came from my “friend” who also has an ed and encouraged mine to start in middle school.

Anonymous 11w

This isn’t what the post said at all tho— they’re saying that skinny ppl with Ed’s are given more consideration than fat ppl with EDs and advocating for ppl to be more considerate to both sides of the spectrum bc the double standard is bullshit— they weren’t saying skinny ppl’s EDs aren’t serious and shouldn’t be handled w/ compassion, they’re just pointing out how harshly fat ppl are judged even when it comes to their EDs

Anonymous

#6 11w

Wdym it isn’t true, when you’re fat society doesn’t have any sympathy for you. Regardless of ED. What does precious have to do with EDs

Anonymous

#6 11w

This is a real thing…… glad you’ve never had to experience it but it 100% happens quite often

Anonymous 11w

Ofc they have insecurities, who said otherwise? Bc of my ED experience, I’m very careful of how I talk about my body in front of others. Bc I know how it feels. Why can’t they have that same consideration for others? Gaining weight ≠ fat, they’d be a lot more successful in unpacking their fatphobia then talk about their bodies in fatphobic ways in front of others Another thing to unpack, why does the thought of looking like us cause this much distress?

Anonymous 11w

No one’s saying skinny women aren’t made of fun what 😭 skinny is the standard Overly dramatic about what?? 😭

Deleted 11w

Comment Deleted

Anonymous 11w

What in the actual fuck