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a girl said “i think men don’t respect women because women don’t even respect other women” and i fear she ate. almost every girl i’ve met has projected onto me or made a backhanded comment like please go to therapy
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Anonymous 4w

this would imply that men WOULD respect women if other women did and i think we both know that’s not true 😭 men don’t respect women bc they’re misogynists and they don’t view women as equals not bc women can be mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

two things can be true at once honey

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

are you proving the point about backhanded comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

calling this “backhanded” while invalidating everything i said is literally proving my point. i never said this only happens because women disrespect other women, you just assumed that’s what i meant.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

can you explain why you called me honey in the most condescending way possible then if your comment wasn’t meant to be backhanded. also… women can disagree with each other. i disagree that men base anything off of how women treat each other bc a misogynist does not care about women and ‘good behavior’ won’t ever be a shield against it. nothing about my original comment was backhanded or invalidating - you even said two things can be true at once

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

disagreeing isn’t disrespecting. u didn’t engage with my point, you dismissed it and acted like women’s behavior has no relevance to misogyny. i was speaking from real experiences. and “honey” was me being dismissive in response to feeling dismissed. very different compared to comments made about my appearance or achievements from other women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

does this mean i get to me dismissive to you because you were dismissive to me? or is that something only you’re allowed to do and also complain about being done to you

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