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Girl Talk 1d
is it normal for men to just pick smth out of the paragraph you just sent and only respond to that one thing..??
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Anonymous 1d

yes- men are so selective about EVERYTHING! ignoring the issue.

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Anonymous 1d

Yes they j dgaf

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Anonymous 1d

yes it’s bc they are either slow or a manipulater (sometimes both)

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Anonymous 1d

honestly you’re bold for even sending a man a paragraph and thinking he’d read any of it 😭

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Anonymous 1d

yes.

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Anonymous 1d

i fear this is a small canon event that every girl is destined to experience

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Anonymous 1d

yea i think they might be illiterate

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Anonymous 1d

Normal, yes. Respectful, no.

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Anonymous 15h

Ppl are gonna say yes. But I wouldn’t say it’s normal, just common. And the common male is pretty underwhelming. Find one with enough of a brain and enough care and consideration for you to respond to the whole thing.

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Anonymous 23h

Cause he’s a dick trust call him out on it then he’s gonna be like “huuuuuh? Idk what you’re talking about”

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Anonymous 1d

I mean my bf is dyslexic and sometimes he doesn’t read things fully and will miss some things but usually responds to them if he catches it later or I just ask him to reread (although this is probs not what you’re dealing with and they’re probs just not caring)

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Anonymous 21h

Think about Rachel’s letter to Ross and he fell asleep they do not care

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Anonymous 15h

yes absolutely

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Anonymous 2h

Yes, yes it is. Same if you send multiple messages.. they are only going to respond to one.

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Anonymous 1d

Girl I just don’t send them paragraphs anymore

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Anonymous 1d

but also like its all laid out in front of you

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Anonymous 1d

yeah that doesnt work me bc right before I sent him a paragraph he sent me one and i responded to everything he said

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

well here’s the context: he’s my bf and he was sending me a paragraph apologizing for always being on the game and shi, and I sent back this whole entire paragraph and he responded only to the part that literally mattered the least

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

i understand what ur saying, mine isn’t dyslexic but it lowk happens often, we get into a conversation, not really an argument but not calm convo, and he jus responds to the darnest things and it just pmo

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Anonymous 1d

weaponized incompetence

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 23h

he my boyfran, it was bound to happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 22h

I did ask him abt it and he said that he just internalizes everything instead of responding to every little thing then proceeded to go back and respond to every mini bullet point in my paragraph 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Men piss me off bro 🫩 like why do you even have to call that out in the first place we’re not mothers, hopefully he doesn’t make it a pattern of doing this I’m glad he responded tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

that’s what my bf tends to default to as well but i pointed it out once and he’s been making a conscious effort to not do that ever since and now he’s at a point where he rarely misses stuff :) so to add to what #11 said, if he ain’t even trying, that’s disrespectful imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2h

I wouldn’t say I need to find another one, all of yalls comments and the conversation I had with him abt it just reminded me that everybody is different and everybody takes information in different ways, he does care for me a lot apologized for not visually showing me that he saw and understood what I said

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