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anyone else here in a sorority? i’m kind of regretting joining and i need to talk to somebody who get it 😭
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Anonymous 3w

I’m ngl I regretted it my entire time I was in one. Chapters and philanthropy and all the other events were hell. I made zero friends and was so lonely ESPECIALLY at sorority events where they all just hung out with their friends and I was alone. But it’s helped me in job applications and grad school

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Anonymous 3w

drop, best decision i’ve ever made

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

that’s so jarring to me, especially since sororities are supposed to be about sisterhood no matter what council it’s from

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yeah idk. I think I just had a bad big. I found out later her philosophy was it’s a littles job to create a relationship with their big. Which makes no sense to me bc it’s the bigs job to help you transition into the sorority

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

okay wait bc i had a similar experience. everyone is so mean to me and secretive like i feel like i have no real friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’d literally try and talk to people and they’d clearly look around for someone else to talk to and once they found them they’d just walk away even if I was mid sentence 😀

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