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Girl Talk 8w
We had sex and now he doesn’t want to see me again. That was my first time I feel so gross and used it’s not even funny
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Anonymous 8w

unfortunately this happens and it’s the worst feeling but you’ll get through this don’t worry it just shows his true colors

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Anonymous 8w

yupppp i understand this too well💔

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Anonymous 8w

i’m so sorry girl that really sucks that it’s your first time. you’ll find much better out there i promise

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Anonymous 8w

Fuck his ass. Clearly isn’t worth you’re time girl

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Anonymous 8w

deadass tell all his male friends/cohorts (if you feel comfortable) bc that’s extremely disrespectful to take a girl’s first time and just dust her like that after — any men with any respect for women will dog on him for that shit. trust me. i’m a grown woman and my freshman year, all the boys avoided my roommate bc we hadn’t had her first time. they respected tf outta her. even if she had wanted to, the guys wouldn’t bc they knew they’re not tryna take her first time for nothing. i’m with you

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Anonymous 8w

Don't fuck no more. Never is worth it fr get a toy

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Anonymous 8w

May he never find love

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Anonymous 8w

I’m so sorry that happened to you my love. You are not gross. You are lovely and don’t let a person make you feel otherwise no matter what.

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Anonymous 8w

Im so so sorry girl i understand. Men are genuinely so cruel and ik that this wont help but this behavior is more of a reflection on him, not you. You’re not disgusting and your first time doesnt define you 🫂

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Anonymous 8w

Girl what you have to do is put antifreeze in his drink

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Anonymous 8w

Still sucks tho but it’s a lesson to be learned

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Anonymous 8w

Did you text , snap or sum ? Or has it been some time now

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Anonymous 8w

This is why people have got to stop being so easy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I just feel so dirty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

it’s okay you’re not you did nothing wrong i promise

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I don’t understand why they do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

*she hadn’t had her first time

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

We texted last night and him being distant and he sent that basic douche text

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

I have his friend on Instagram I could tell him everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

no need to make it a manifesto confession, but unfortunately his friends might be birds of a feather so pls consider that as an outcome. however i do recommend a short (1-2 sentence) message like “your homie apparently will convince a woman to have their first time with him then he will run away with it. you got a big ol’ loser on your team!!”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I’m sorry yeah you deserve better , where is this from ? East coast ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Mid west

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Anonymous 8w

Both work lmao

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Anonymous 8w

CRINE LMFAO should’ve elaborated better 🙏😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Ah yea there’s the explanation men aren’t shit in the Midwest. This is not on you girly i promise it’ll get better

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

Thank you queen 💜

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8w

Good idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Thank you 💜

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 8w

My bad bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I’m haven’t done anything with a guy cus this is what I’m afraid of. They are all dicks and only want one thing. Especially the freshmen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

It’s not your bad. You’re not easy nor in the wrong. You had a natural human desire and acted on it. If you take anything from this experience it should be that direct communication, and boundaries are important to set before intimacy. Boundaries can’t/don’t control other people, they are just our standards for what we will tolerate, and walk away from.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8w

We had talked for months before so it’s not like it was a hookup

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

That’s even worse since he had a motive 😢 it’ll be okay, he’s gonna get his karma

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