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Girl Talk 4w
I saw smth on TikTok that said a lot of ppl assume bubbly black girls are trying to act white…and that’s been my experience god forbid a girl is happy 😭 it’s so much to go through
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Anonymous 4w

Now why tf would they correlate happiness to being white? That is DUMB. Man, don’t worry and be happy, or what the song said

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Anonymous 4w

It’s because being seen as bubbly and happy is seen as weakness. We’re constantly told to be independent and strong. People don’t think you can be strong and happy

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Anonymous 4w

Thats stupid af on multiple levels

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Bc they want all of us to be miserable and assume we’re a monolith

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yes but it’s our experience. So annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get it, it’s stupid that your experience is invalidated by this comment and other comments in similar vain

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Exactly and it’s not. I just hate being understood

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Misunderstood!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s ridiculous for those people to say such things. In fact I hope you’re extra bubbly today✨

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It is! And yes I have been

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