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I really want to just stop messaging him because he is becoming less and less consistent but I like him too much and don’t want it to be over
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Anonymous 14w

From someone who let it go on for FOUR YEARS get out while you can 😭 most draining and worse years of my life

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Anonymous 13w

Talk to him. Tell him what you’ve noticed. Ask if there is anything you can partner with him to do make things more consistent. If there isn’t an understandable reason, tell him you want to work on things with him, ask him to work as a team to build a fun plan, and give it two more months. If consistency doesn’t improve, it’s a choice, and now you can make one too.

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