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I’m in a healthy relationship currently but sometimes when I think of my bf, my ex pops up in my head, or if I think of my bfs name my exs name pops up in my head. It’s really confusing because I’m completely over my ex and cut ties with him. What do I do
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Anonymous 10w

are you sure ur over him? is it just remembering memories yall had together. this is one of the reasons my fwb just ended things with me instead of trying exclusivity. he was thinking of his ex in things which didn't feel fair to start up a relationship w someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I’m completely over him. When I’m thinking like “oh I wonder what ____ is doing” while thinking of my bf, my brain replaces his name with my ex’s sometimes and it’s weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i'm sure over time it'll go away

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