“working puts you in your masculine” i’m sorry but IF i cared about being feminine i would say working hard to GROW & EVOLVE & live a bountiful beautiful life is perfectly feminine. stagnation & isolation in the nuclear family are masculine 🙄
and to be clear about the nuclear family part: have husbands! have kids! but you need MORE THAN THAT! you need your girls, you need your neighbors, you need your hobbies & your village & nothing will change my mind on that.