It fully depends on your relationship and the boundaries yall set. Me personally, not at all I have no issues w it but other people fully consider it cheating so there’s not a golden rule

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no, but you gotta ask yourself why are you/they watching it

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to some it is, to some it's not. neither is wrong, it's personal preference

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depends. to me, if you’re watching it because you’re attracted to the woman in the video then yes. if you’re watching it but imagining I AM the woman in the video and not actually paying attention to her looks then i wouldn’t really care

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