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am i missing out on the college experience if i don’t go out and drink with my friends on the weekend? i see all my friends dress up and go experience college as a 20 y/o and i know i hate going out but i wonder if im missing out on being a college girl
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Anonymous 1d

Nooo I used to be like that with my friends and found it’s almost never anything more than someone getting too sick, someone embarrassing themself, having to keep your friends from being roofied, and waking up the next morning feeling like crap

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Anonymous 1d

no girl I wouldn’t be worried, it’s the same stuff every weekend lol. if you have the things that make you happy and you don’t like going out there is nothing wrong with that at all, do what makes you feel most fulfilled

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Anonymous 1d

plus you are saving yourself from hanganxiety

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Anonymous 1d

Not at all. I just did a dry January and tried to drink like I used to this past weekend, ended up throwing up for the first time from drinking bc I didn’t pace myself. It was not pleasant and I was already kinda over drinking and going out, so that just sealed the deal 🙃

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Anonymous 1d

Not at all darling! I know it’s hard to avoid FOMO but honestly just do what you’re comfortable with. If your friends are getting dress up and going out let them. Enjoy yourself and if you feel like you want to join them at times, that’s okay too but don’t think you are missing out on something that you know you won’t like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I still have a night out with my girls once in a while but I’m happier when we’re just all at home together!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

In fact recently started living with a friend that’s sober and doesn’t like alcohol in the apartment and I’ve noticed my home is much more peaceful

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