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it’s just my luck that the first time ever that my crush on a girl lasts past the first date, she’s emotionally unavailable #freeme
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Anonymous 3w

What does it mean when people describe someone as emotionally unavailable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

usually they mean that they still have feelings for their ex or something like that, but in this case i mean that she is so busy and overwhelmed with other obligations that she doesn’t have time or mental capacity for dating :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

they aren’t in tune with your emotions or don’t provide you with emotional support

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ohh that makes sense thanks guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Also that sucks I’m sorta in the same boat right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ughhhh i’m sorry :( yeah i’m really bummed, we had a date set up for saturday that i’d been looking forward to for weeks, but it’s exam season and i guess it’s too much for her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh no that’s honestly understandable on her end too but also it’s not very nice to be trying to date while knowing you’re already swamped with school

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

yes exactly like i appreciated the communication from her but…. we’ve only been talking for a month, and only 2 days ago she was telling me that she was excited for our date, so how much really could have changed ? like surely she would’ve had some idea, yk ? (and i had so much hope, she and i clicked super well☹️)

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