
what state do u guys live in bc i live somewhere with very low cultural gender essentialism and this pov is very alien to me. like all my friend groups are totally co-ed and everyone is very normal abt it. like we all just kinda treat each other like ppl and gender doesnt matter much at all
oh no wait I’m so so sorry it came across that way!!! i really am. It was a genuine question, I just see this sentiment a lot and I’m trying to understand where it comes from and what life experiences so that i can have a more whole understanding of the world. I can see now how what i said might be taken the wrong way and i sincerely apologize