
Most people loved Hitler until the concentration camps became public knowledge, many famous serial killers are described as their neighbors as being “lovely people”, and most domestic abusers get away with it because they initially come off as great partners, and hide the evidence of their crimes in public
He doesn’t even have to be “evil”. What if he gets into accident and dies or becomes unable to work? Unless he’s rich/has a lot of savings, you’re gonna have no new income while the little money you had starts to dwindle because you’re paying the mortgage, utility bills, phone bills, car insurance, food, etc. And how long will it take you to find a good paying job with no work experience or degree?