Anonymous #2 7w

or wants to actually spend money on us like the providers they claim to be. the fucking horror

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why is it a dealbreaker for you?

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Anonymous OP 7w

Insane how they truly only care about how it affects them— “seems like every woman has a rape story”— instead of being concerned abt how women are so consistently attacked and abused he’s just annoyed that he has to deal with the emotional turmoil in the aftermath that we deal with every fucking day what a piece of shit

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Anonymous #6 7w

and that’s not crazy to say it’s literally self defense at this point

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Anonymous #5 7w

because I cant act normal during sex anymore. I’ll be fine and then something takes me out of it and I’m back there again and I just shut down. I hate it

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That’s what I’ve been telling myself for two and a half years now

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Yeah that’s weird asf. I was SA’d and I won’t go into more detail than that but I have PTSD and struggle having sex and my partner is right there for me like a decent person should be

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Anonymous #3 7w

Maybe Im Reading This Wrong But Ion Think Youre A POS If You Are A Victim Of Sexual Assault. I Think Others Dont Understand How Much Sexual Trauma Sticks With You Especially During Intimate Moments ..

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Anonymous #3 7w

that isn’t what the post is about

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Anonymous #3 7w

I dont think you’re a POS but even if you’re a victim saying it’s a good reason to break up with someone is very damaging and can hurt so many people. It’s one thing to put those feelings on yourself but to spread that opinion is wrong. Also maybe you’ve had bad luck bc you seem to be picking assholes instead of a compassionate and caring partner. I hope you find one one day

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Anonymous #8 7w

I mean I can’t form a relationship. I was trying to dryly joke about how it sucks for us way more. I’m sorry I’m picking assholes though I’ll definitely try better for you next time.

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Anonymous #9 7w

Yeah I meant it’s terrible for me and means I can’t have a good relationship.

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Anonymous #8 7w

Okay I’ll make sure to pick a good guy next time. That’s how I got here anyway. Not picking the right guy

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Anonymous #5 7w

Okay I’m sorry for talking about how sexual assault affects the victim more than their future partners on a post talking about men complaining about victims of sexual assault

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Anonymous #5 7w

They can pick somebody who hasn’t experienced anything bad or who has magically fully healed from it but I can’t pick somebody who undoes what happened

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Anonymous #3 7w

you’re insufferable

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Anonymous #5 7w

How the fuck do you have a problem with this?

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Anonymous #3 7w

Or get this: you could be the one to give them a completely good and consensual experience because you know how badly SA can affect people.

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Anonymous #3 7w

You can seek therapy to help you be comfortable having sex again. Or just date someone who isn’t interested in sex

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Anonymous #3 7w

the whole point is that nobody cares that it inconveniences a dude if someone’s been raped. like nobody cares. yeah it matters for the victim way more. and i was raped a few days ago it fucking sucks i want to kill myself. ion give a fuck if that’s someone’s dealbreaker just fuck off dude yknow that’s all

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Anonymous #11 7w

I’m in therapy. Sometimes it takes a while. In the meantime let me know if you find a man who is actually okay with not having sex lol

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Anonymous #10 7w

Okay what are you talking about? Do you think I’m out here doing the raping?

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Anonymous #13 7w

I know nobody but the dude cares if it inconveniences the dude. I am talking about how it inconveniences me. I am not the dude. I hope you stop wanting to kill your self soon. It hasn’t let up for me yet but somehow I am still here. I hope you can find a good therapist and talk about doing cpt or emdr. Be gentle and give yourself grace

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Anonymous #3 7w

They’re not common but sex repulsed asexual men do exist. That would probably be your best bet

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Anonymous #11 7w

Whatever you do I hope things get better for you

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Anonymous #12 7w

twitter is genuinely just an incel clan meeting & nothing else you couldn’t pay me to download it for a second

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Anonymous #1 7w

Women can hate men without being sexually violating But men seemingly can’t really women without it becoming rxpe or worse.. That should tell you everything you need to know!

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Anonymous #14 7w

*hate women

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Read the post lmao The “I hate men” movement from women does not sexually violate men The “I hate women” movement from men is basically just men getting pissed they can’t sleep with a girl/ touch her. I agree with you

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Anonymous #14 7w

my bad queen😭😭🩷

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Anonymous #1 7w

No problem! Glad to be on your team. Fuck the patriarchy and fuck men!!

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When the CDC measures any contact sexual violence over a lifetime (by partners, acquaintances, and strangers alike), the statistic jumps to nearly 1 in 2 women at 44% to 50% of women.

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Anonymous #16 7w

I’m so glad you all aren’t dating anymore. No one, even a woman who hasn’t been victimized yet, doesn’t deserve to be with someone like you. Also get out of girl talk??? You’re a man. Leave.

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Anonymous #16 7w

Then you didn’t actually love her and shouldn’t of gotten into a relationship in her with the first place

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Anonymous #16 7w

“how can i blame women for men’s actions bc i’m not mature enough to navigate through any emotional hardships in a relationship”. if you guys truly loved the person you would dating you would have more anger for the perpetrator than annoyance that your gf isn’t competent for your needs. just stay single lil bro

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Anonymous #16 7w

Yeah you’re just not a good person. I will have flashbacks while we are having sex and without me having to say anything my partner will stop, hold me, and take care of me until I’m ok, that’s what a strong partner does, what a good person does. I hope you have a lot of personal growth before you get in a relationship and please stop mansplaining women’s trauma to us. Oh! And get the fuck out of girl talk

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Anonymous #18 7w

I’m in a relationship lol. That comment was abt my ex and why we didn’t move forward. She had a lot of mental and emotional trauma as a result of her 🍇. That made it very hard for her to open up and trust me. Even though I was trying to be there and provide emotional support. I did not say girls who got sa don’t deserve love… no. I’m just saying there’s some challenges when dating someone like that and not everybody wants to go through it It took 2 months before she would even let me kiss her

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Anonymous #1 7w

If you’ve just met someone, how are you gonna get to know them and eventually love them if they won’t trust or open up to you? That’s my point.

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