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It must be so fun to be a guy
121 upvotes, 29 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "It must be so fun to be a guy"
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Anonymous 11w

Cancun is probably fine if you’re staying at the airports and resorts tbh

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Anonymous 11w

i solo travelled to 23 countries alone as a 19 year old girl and nothing ever happened. ur limiting urself by being scared of life

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

america was the scariest country btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

it’s so incredible that that’s your story but that’s not gonna be the case for everyone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I know plenty of women solo travel and stay safe but this particular video was showing a nightclub in Cancun in the second part of the video which there is just no way is safe to go to alone as a woman. So yes women can travel solo but they have to take way more precautions and still miss out on certain activities compared to men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

true, men or women. traveling or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

the same amount of precautions as going out in the US tbh. u don’t have to miss out on anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

many people die in car crashes everyday. should we avoid cars?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

you don’t get drugged and assaulted by a car

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I mean yeah woman have to take more precautions in life in the US too, they have to take more precautions everywhere. My screenshot was just an example because it really stood out to me. But the overall sentiment that it must be so fun, and easier, to be a guy is true for a lot of scenarios, not just specifically solo traveling out of the country. Though that is a really big one that is dumb to ignore. I’m not sure why you’re arguing against this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I never said don’t solo travel as a woman. It just is a lot riskier for us and we have a lot more to consider when we do it. We always have to be more on guard. That’s a fact.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

more likely to happen in the US

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

it’s also fairly easy to not get drugged by using drink covers and not leaving it anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

also that was a terrible example cuz at least it doesn’t kill u like the cars lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i’m just saying because i always see this discourse of women saying they can’t solo travel when they very much can. i’m not forcing you to lmao but you there’s really no reason to be scared and hold yourself back. all of my bad experiences were in the US

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

your personal experience does not negate the very real risk that solo traveling has for women and no amount of “well this happened to me” is going to change that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

? reread my comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

that “very real risk” applies to u going to ur neighborhood grocery story btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

no amount of “well xyz died” is going to change the fact that 99% of people do is successfully. keep livin in fear girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

it*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

if you really truly see no difference in going to a completely unfamiliar place where you know no one & might not even speak the same language vs going down the street. like if you really really honestly think both of those scenarios carry the same amount of risk you’re not intelligent enough to have this convo

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

it doesn’t. clearly you’re not intelligent AND have no experience, yikes. really really honestly think and do some research while you’re hiding in your house 😬 maybe you wouldn’t make it out there tho it does take some common sense to come out alive LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Everyone hating but I’m with you. I wanna live my life and explore maybe it’s cause I’m young and naive but I’m not just gonna stop living because I’m scared of men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

exactlyyy maybe these ppl don’t deserve to travel lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Ok that’s a bit far lolll you can definitely still travel while being cautious, and I’m not hating people who want to be cautious. They’re probably smarter than me in the long run

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Is it known as particularly dangerous for women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

Mexico is, in general, but Cancun is a tourist city

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Aren’t tourist cities the easiest way to get ur target (women)

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

Tourist cities also have the most protection. Airport security, resort security, accessible emergency services, CCTV cameras everywhere. Cities without tourists are riskier because they lack a lot of that, have weaker crime enforcement (relatively) and if you’re an ethnicity uncommon in the area it makes you a greater target. Btw very few sex traffickers don’t target tourists because kidnapping is ineffective. Date rape happens basically everywhere

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