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Y’all I have my first gynecologist appointment Thursday and I am so scared. I’m 20, never been sexually active. But I turn 21 in April. You’re supposed to get a Pap smear at 21 and I’m scared they’re gonna make me do it this time.
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Anonymous 6w

they’re really not that bad. it’s so important to get them done, but they can’t make you do anything without your consent.

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Anonymous 6w

They won’t!! Your first appointment will just be a general introduction, getting information about you. They will probably do a basic examination and possibly a breast exam. Just to make sure you’re healthy. They cannot force you to do anything you don’t want to do. Pap smear is something for another day, don’t worry about it right now. But when that day comes, please know it’s nothing to be afraid of. It doesn’t hurt. You only feel them doing it and a little pressure but that’s it.

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Anonymous 5w

I went for the first time at 22 so mine did do a Pap smear, yours may do it our wait till the following year check up. If they do do the PS, they’ll walk you through everything and what it’ll feel like, the process itself is super brief, I spent more time scooting down the table then I did doing the Pap smear lol

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Anonymous 6w

Hey hunny! They won’t make you get a Pap smear untold. However! Pap smears are NOT supposed to hurt, and if it does your doctor is doing something wrong. Ofc there’s going to be pressure and it’s going to be a little uncomfy bc it’s new but not painful. I turned 21 in August and got one done in October!

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Anonymous 6w

You can ALWAYS say no

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Anonymous 5w

They won’t “make” you do anything, that would be battery

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Anonymous replying to -> bunniee 6w

My mom just told me they’re for sure doing a pap cause I’m almost 21 and that’s fine I’m just nervous. I have a high pain threshold so I’m hoping that’ll make things good. I think what I’m most nervous about is being that naked with another person. Like I’m never naked in front of anyone. I make my mom turn around in the gas station bathroom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I fear your mom could be wrong. Also they give you a robe so you’re not like bare naked in front of them! You’ll be able to be as decent as you can in order for them to do basic exam. For breast exam they will have you uncover one breast at a time.

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Anonymous replying to -> bunniee 6w

Cool cool. I’m mentally prepared just in case. And I can wear socks! Which is great cause I don’t want my feetsies to be cold

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yes!! Yay Socks!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Lol I’ve been looking at Instagram reels about it and all of them have the scoot down thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Literally! However, far down you think you have to scoot, scoot further 😭

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