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Sometimes I really find the “he was a loser, you’re better off without him” response to breakup really counterproductive. Because whether it’s true or not, sometimes I just need to grieve what felt like real love without judgment.
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And it doesn’t make me feel better. It makes me feel like a loser for dating a “loser”. It makes me feel so unseen because my very real, meaningful, relationship is reduced to a mistake. Just because it didn’t work out. I made no mistake in deciding to love someone.

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