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Girl Talk 1w
My friend has this habit of ALWAYS telling me embarrassing stuff about her bf/past bf’s and I dunno why but it makes me feel kinda sick to my stomach and disgusted that her bf told her such personal information and she blabs to all her friends about it
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Anonymous 1w

Imma just make up an example, but let’s say she told me about how her bf has a fear of soy sauce because he was SA’ed as a kid and soy sauce was the only thing strong enough to get the other flavor out of his mouth.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Or another ex would be something like “He has really big nipples. Like, they’re so freaking huge😂” and she expects me to laugh with her ig? I dunno, it makes me feel really bad and embarrassed for the bf because what if MY boyfriend was saying that stuff about me to his friends? I would be so disgusted.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And I don’t know how to bring this situation up or what to say about it, my other friends think I’m over reacting but am I? I think it’s really sickening how he trusts her with his body/insecurities/secrets and she just spills ALL of them to us, I feel gross knowing something I shouldn’t too… it makes me feel bad…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i don’t think you’re wrong for feeling that way. she’s bringing up wildly uncomfortable topics as a punchline, regardless of who it’s about. ur mutual friends are kinda shortsighted in saying youre overreacting but u should probably let her know you don’t enjoy the jokes and those topics at all

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