my guy best friend and i have been sorta fucking around recently. he just told me he would only date someone his age or older.. i’m 2 years younger. wtf do i do
either stop messing around or accept that you'll just the the friends with benefits, he's made a boundary clear it's not up to you to try and change that just because you caught feelings
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Anonymous24w
U can still ask if he would date u if thats what u want, its only a few years of a difference
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Anonymous24w
Men always say that but don’t always follow through… if he likes you it won’t matter girl
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Anonymous24w
accept that he only wants to fuck u and be ur friend or move on. him saying that is him letting u knw u won't be someone he dates seriously
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Anonymous24w
guys, i don’t necessarily want to date him. i don’t. me and him have very mutual feelings about what we do. him saying that more or so made me feel like he doesn’t care abt me. idk how to explain it tbh, but we are best friends
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AnonymousOP24w
talk to him abt it and let him knw how it made u feel. just bc yall aren't dating doesn't mean u can't be open about how convos like that have u feeling