either stop messing around or accept that you'll just the the friends with benefits, he's made a boundary clear it's not up to you to try and change that just because you caught feelings

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U can still ask if he would date u if thats what u want, its only a few years of a difference

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Men always say that but don’t always follow through… if he likes you it won’t matter girl

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accept that he only wants to fuck u and be ur friend or move on. him saying that is him letting u knw u won't be someone he dates seriously

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guys, i don’t necessarily want to date him. i don’t. me and him have very mutual feelings about what we do. him saying that more or so made me feel like he doesn’t care abt me. idk how to explain it tbh, but we are best friends

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